Often the world gets pretty desolated and you start thinking about the times you wept alone in darkness and all the times you wished you had someone by your side, someone to share your inhibitions with, someone to weep with, someone to come back home to..
No matter how busy you try to keep yourself and how occupied you stay, these thoughts creep into your mind from your subconscious and slowly make their way to your heart (always the best and easiest target).
Many times I feel that love is an adventitious word- A foreign word that is in vogue but is like a new fashion that is not understood by everyone.The hindrance we experience if we think about taking one step in that direction or the detestable feelings that crawl within our gut and do not let us move forward with the same are what tell us that love is not meant for us.. On and off we assure our fragile hearts of the same, but rarely succeed.
PERHAPS ITS ABOUT THE PATH YOU TAKE AND THE PURPOSE YOU MAKE.
Will you not agree if i say love is about moving to a new city and exploring a new you? or about finding a new passion and giving it your all.It could be about a new talent, a new hobby or a different idea towards tackling something old which can prove to be the next best thing you do with your life. Love is about traveling the world until you find the motive of your existence.
“darling you were created to move mountains”
MAYBE ITS NOT ABOUT ATTACHMENT BUT ABOUT INDIVIDUALITY.
Life is certainly not about confining yourself or limiting yourself to a selective/ countable number of people and conditioning yourself to believe that this is the best thing that could happen to you. Life is about not limiting yourself between two lines.
“i want no roads , just fields to roam.
with blameless blue skies and rustling wind.
where the sunshine clothes the barley in gold.
with sapphire nights and the reassuring light.
dont limit me between two lines,
let boundless earth and sky be mine”
It is about human libraries.It is about meeting new groups of people from different social contexts who inspire you to live better, who motivate you to heights, enlighten you with their wisdom.. through their stories, their experiences and the moments that changed their lives.
Maybe its not about a single person giving you an opinion or a judgement but a handful helping you make better decisions with constructive criticism.. and ultimately its about being inspired by yourself without needing external validation and approval.
Because your journey from now onward is about changing your own life and being your own superhero.
POSSIBLY ITS NOT ABOUT HOLDING BACK, BUT ABOUT SETTING FREE.
Now is the era when we redefine love.Lets not cage someone and call it love, but set them all free.Give them enough reasons and good memories to come back but ensure they are not in a compromisable position if they are staying with you.
‘If you cage a bird and feed it everyday, it will still dream of being in the open, of flying like thousands of others. But if you feed a free bird, it will surely come back to you’
Life was never about holding someone back..
‘Our mothers give birth to us, bring us in this beautiful yet cruel world, ensure our comfort, sacrifice their lives in order to make our lives better, and then one day.. sets us free to face the harsh realities of the bellicose humankind.
If one has to live in harmony, some things have to be realized sooner than later :-
Maybe the journey is about learning from the past and letting it go and embracing the new dawn with a warm smile and loads of hopes.Maybe life is not about forseeing futures with your loved ones but ensuring you live each moment to the fullest and dream breath by breath .
MAYBE THE JOURNEY IS ABOUT LOVING YOURSELF AND NOT FINDING LOVE.
(cause some things are bigger than just love)
Much love and gratitude to each one reading this :’) ❤